How to be a good bridesmaid (even to a bridezilla)

Wedding season is officially upon us and, if you’re lucky enough to be the chosen one at your bestie’s big day, you might be wondering how to be a good bridesmaid. Unfortunately, being a bridesmaid isn’t just about getting your girl drunk AF on her hen night – so, if you want your friendship to be even stronger when she’s a mrs, here are 10 things you need to do to win the title of the world’s best bridesmaid.

Keep on top of planning by getting a diary

First of all, wedding require planning. A LOT of planning. There’s dress shopping, dress fittings, venue viewings, cake tasting – you name it, the bride is going to want your input. So, to make sure that you don’t miss any crucial appointments – and to avoid having to be reminded by a very frustrated bride-to-be every 3 days. If you want to really commit to the role, this gorgeous personalised bridesmaid planner is a great choice to keep you on track.

Take no prisoners

In all likelihood, your girl will still be deep in her happily-engaged-haze, so it’s your job to make sure she doesn’t get ripped off when it comes to wedding vendors. Keep your wits about you and don’t be shy to haggle a price or ask for extras for her. It’s her job to be over-excited and your job to Take. No. Prisoners.

Don’t moan about your dress

Chances are, if you’ve been asked to be bridesmaid, your friend knows you well enough not to put you in an unflattering dress. But, that said, finding a dress that looks fabulous on upwards for three different girls is a stress, so you’re all going to have to suck it up and compromise. Most importantly, if you do draw the short straw when it comes your your bridesmaid attire, under no circumstances WHATSOEVER are you going to moan about it, OK?

Organise the hen around her

Listen, you might want a midget stripper at your hen party – hell, even I want a midget stripper at my hen party… but the bride-to-be might not be that way inclined. Make sure you listen to your bestie when it comes to what she wants for her hen do, and arrange things accordingly. Also, try to remember that not everyone is in the same financial situation, and your girl would probably rather have everyone she loves be able to attend, rather than a select few going on holiday.

Tell her how beautiful she looks

Last, but definitely not least, tell your girl how fabulous she looks on the big day. This should go without saying, but it’s really important! Planning a wedding is stressful, and she’s probably spent the last few months worrying about whether everything will come together. So, on the day itself make sure she feels a million dollars and has the special day that she deserves!